About

My name is Stan Van Sant, and I am survivor of infidelity. It was one of the most painful episodes of my life, and I wanted to put this web site together to help others who are going through the same thing I did.

If this is happening to you now, the one thing I’d want you to know is that you can survive this, reclaim your existence, and begin to make healthy choices that will allow you to regain the power in your life.  It is possible. You do have choices to make that will determine the quality of your life, and, if applicable, the lives of your children.

We cannot control what happens to us, often times.  But, what we can control is how we respond to what is thrown our way.

I invite you to join me on the journey of survival and the search for the beautiful that makes it all worthwhile.